AA claims all alcoholics are ego-centric and must admit that every time someone hurt them, they were at fault. This idea has caused more harm than good for those who have survived abuse. They are not at fault.
Page 136 through 150 of The Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous Chapter 10 (To Employers)
Page 122 through 135 of The Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous Chapter 9 (The Family Afterward)
Page 58 through 71 of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous Chapter 5 (How it works)